beautiful life

Who can make you downhearted ? Will you put the blame on your people around; spouse, children, neigbours even your enemy ?........wait....wait... nobody or nothing can put you down except yourself.

Once a young lady with swollen dark eyes said " ...see after all my hubby will feel sorry....he will regret seeing me getting insane...... or let see if I run away or kill myself at the end..... This is my way to take vengeance on him.......him !! ........ and I will be satisfied then....."

Similar story comes from a 15 year old broken-home girl.... "I hate mylife...I hate myself ......I hate my body..... I hate my fam...and the most of all I hate him....(her dad) . I hate school ... I hate my supervisor..... I hate this world. They all give me a headache. They just compete to create scar after scar in my heart....no other word but WHY decorated the whole pages of my dearest diary "

Here we go with the questions
1. Who is the most responsble on your life ?
Do not let anybody steer your happiness. Your happiness is your own decision....it is not
given by anyone else no matter he or she is. Your spouse cannot give you neither happiness
nor grief. SO choose to be happy ... why not instead of feel sorry for yourself.

2. Why they do this to me ?
Do not be self-center...me...me....me.....
Do something for others... try to make others happy to be around you.
Do not expect anysthing from anybody otherwise youn will be frustrated.....